^ everything he's done will be offensive to the judge. Just let him hang himself. It's what they do-all the while kicking and screaming and pointin the finger at you. WTBH-this is what you get when your MIL is in the "worst enabling blaming coddling lying mother of the year" category: a little man child that likes to throw tantrums and abuse his kids to get back at you and not follow any orders bc mommy (and in my case, sissy) tell him he doesn't have to-nobody holds poor little boy accountable. Checkmate.
Just let him be himself-that speaks volumes!