Ugh, I had a long post ready and it disappeared.
Lulu, I second Bandi's response, let the sober you shine!
Charliesworld and Meshelly, getting through major events without drinking is part of the recovery process. You've worked too hard to through it all away to keep someone else happy for a brief moment. Stay strong and stick with your quit, eventually, your SOs will realize that you are even more fun and engaging sober than when you were previously!
Sunflower, I had a mystery backache last week, not much on headaches, but that is a benefit of taking Kudzu supplements. With so many reporting the same symptoms, I would chalk it up as part of the healing process.
To everyone hitting milestones today, from 24 hours to 30 days +, congratulations, make today and everyday count!