^ agree with every word. These guys truly think nobody sees their actions and that they don't matter. They try to ruin anything they can for you (mine served me with papers a night before thanksgiving). It's just what they do-and honey, they are the slime balls, the abusers, etc. I'd bet the court has seen plenty of your ex and will not look kindly at all on what he's doing. Stand your ground and trust that the truth, not his delusions and lies, will prevail.