WTBH-this is what narcissists do. Btdt-my ex is a narc as well. He filed frivolous contempt papers against me in November. This is just what they do, although that doesn't make it any easier. Don't sweat it, bc you didn't do anything wrong. You adhered to the plan and he is just kicking and screaming like the toddler he is bc he didn't get his way (am I close to accurate here? I had a funny mental picture writing that!!). Narcs are incapable of seeing their own actions and when called out they retaliate more. Btdt as well. I'm so incredibly sorry you are going through this but rest assured you are not alone. I'm with you, sister!!! PM me anytime. Hugs and peace to you!