Hey tinkerbell - I think you should share or not share as much as you want to as well.
It;s ok to have something private where you can be honest without having to feel you have to redraft things for an particular audience.
I'd recommend that you keep your pass word safe - don;t use auto log in and if your husband knows your user name, you can ask Anna to change it.
It's not about shutting him out - it's about priorities right now I reckon
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