Oh....kittycat and sobersolstice...as much as I'd love to be in a (good) relationship, I just can't even entertain the idea of dating, sober or not, to be honest. I am healing from the end of a 12 year on and off (but intense) relationship that ended in a sad, even bitter way this past summer. I can't help but feel like I wasted so much time on him and I'm not getting any younger. But, ugh, just can't imagine dating.