Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
how about NOT ANSWERING THE PHONE? i don't mean to be snarky, but it's just a damn phone, you are not its servant, regardless of WHO is calling.
That's the crux of my question I guess... Do I have an obligation to put the kids on the phone?
Clearly I can choose to never answer it... but it is a fine line it feels like to me, between that and then being accused as the custodial parent, of interfering with his "right" to access his kids...