Wanttibehealthy-like we have discussed, your ex and mine share DNA. I'm sure of it now. The phone calks are awful-more bullying, threats, stories about him-nothjng, not one thing, about the kids. More empty promises and my oldest has hung up almost nightly for months. It's awful and I for one am not going to stand for it anymore-I'm not going to be steamrolled by this abusive narcissist who vies it as his right to abuse, lie, and slander to his child. Done. The phone calls have nothjng to do with the kids-it's just another way to harrass me.
You are NOT wrong-he is te one that is wrong on so many levels. Peace and hugs to you, friend.