Hi Jen, you are being tremendously brave. All this would be a lot easier to bear if you didn't have all the other crap to put up with.
I never know quite what to say Jen as I find your husbands behaviour inexplicable. I'm a guy and usually I can get some kind of feel of where another guy is coming from but not in Brians case
Ending on a positive note, the surgery seems to have gone well, the pain is less frequent and it's good that you are healing
All the best
