Thumpalumpacus good for getting right back at it. There is a lot of support here when you need it. It is only one setback but it is also a new start!
Fradley- In my last sobriety effort I had high expectations of getting sober and grand visions of big changes and all of that. Ultimately it didn't work. When I started getting sober again I lowered my expectations and so far that is working better for me. I have made some changes and see a lot of progress but I am letting things happen in it's own time.
I've heard of a lot of stories of relationship problems that surface when the mask of alcohol disappears. It is something we must all grapple with and work through. One thing I have learned on this thread is that everyone with long sober streaks seems a lot happier!