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Old 01-28-2016, 05:50 AM
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I've been divorced three years. I had two wedding bands since I do all kinds of sports and construction projects and wanted a "play" ring for that purpose.

I had an abusive, twisted marriage.

I didn't want to keep the karma in those rings.

Six months post divorce I happened to meet a friend at the lake at a place right next door to one that held many married memories for me. I went out alone to the end of the dock and threw my "play" ring in the lake, releasing and freeing myself. It was an amazing, fulfilling, unnerving feeling!

My financial side couldn't do the same with the other two. A year after divorce I asked my mom to sell them but the prices were rock bottom. So she has them still.

And I'm softening on the fact that maybe my karma in those rings is powerful--my love, my memories, my best efforts...so who knows what I'll do.

I think give it time and don't be rash.
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