Ha...you and I are on the same timing, I swear! I'm selling mine too-anything he ever gave me as I do not want it contaminating my home. (Funny, I did think about sending my two diamond bands back to him just letting him know that his sister and mom would be more appropriate recipients of eternity bands than I ever was ). Nah, I'll take the money
I say you attack debt first-and use a little for fun money. Gotta watch the debt esp as it doesn't sound like ex is going to foot half the bills-not surprising. Peace friend!!!