Oh, phoebe; I am so sorry for the young woman, her family, friends and for all of you.
The loss of a child is every parent's nightmare; when the loss at the child's own hand, it is all the more tragic, incomprehensible and devastating.
We have two sets of friends who lost a child through suicide; it was an unimaginably horrific time for them; their other children, family and friends.
I am so sorry; I will pray for you, your family, the young woman and her family and friends.
Sending you love, dear phoebe.