I love the decoder! That's perfect and so true. I love even more that you see through all this BS, and all the progress you have made.
My X was trying to bait me last night, I did not fall for it. It just makes them even more livid. And you are spot on, the crap they spew is how they feel about themselves coming through.
Keep on living my friend, you are doing great!
Power to the Prunes....I am dying! Love this!!!!!!!!