NPDers are famous for the games they play. So are alkies but your guy takes the cake. It's just a game to screw with you, so either way you lose (in his mind) bc he's screwed with you. Sick stuff, eh? My ex tried to do the same thing-only what his actions have shown says everything about him...and thankfully a lot of other people have had their eyes opened to his lies, manipulations and bulying. Let him keep hanging himself and you sleep peacefully (I know, I know you're angry-that's what he wants). Peace and many hugs to you.