Wanttobehealthy-I SO relate to your post. Almost word for word. I'd say whatever gets him gone and you some peace, regardless of whether he sees consequences now, that is the best option. God has a way of taking care of things-and in my experience ALWAYS takes care of them the best way-without us trying to be prideful and get in His way. I feel your pain-you are doing the best you can in a really crappy situation-kudos to you for taking care of yourself and your kids. Him? He's got the rest of his life to continue living with his demons-which will only get worse for him. Rooting for you, whatever you decide. I'll say a prayer tonight that you get sone peace about a decision; please keep us updated on how things go. Peace to you tonight.