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Old 01-11-2016, 01:55 PM
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lovehoops
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Hi all,

Glad to see we are around and posting.
Congrats on 5 months yoga pants...that's terrific.

Patricia...my advice would be try not to focus on your husbands projections about the future. Whether he would really be able to just go on with his plans and leave you and your son behind sounds somewhat unlikely ?
My husband "discusses " retirement out loud also. He tells me "we will be in a condo with only a terrace to take care of". When I tell him I still ove or garden and would like the privacy of a small yard...he tells me no. I just ignore him and keep working. Until he has me signing condo papers , I am not harping on it. It's so much negative energy which takes up wasted space.
Try to relax and focus your thoughts on feeling better today.

Hugs to you xo
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