The girls are safe and virtually never with him and I do not care one bit about the money he is offering...
I guess I do not know which option is best for me right now...
If it is on record with the court that a default was entered after a hearing he pretty much loses ALL right to justify dragging me back again (as he's done the last year in court just to be vindicitve..)
On the other hand, if I accept his settlement, does that continue to afford him the right to drag me to court when he decides he does not want to follow the orders...
I simply want what will give me the best chance at having him LEAVE me alone for good...
And sadly, I do not know which that is...
There is an equal likelihood that if we go to court he'll be angry and feel he needs to retaliate and make life hell OR if we don't he'll have his NPD entitlement fueled and possibly make my life hell bc of that too...
It is just never ending with him