Originally Posted by
ShootingStar1 
What he needs right now is to OWN HIS OWN issues. Wholly. Totally. Without deflection. Silently.
Without your input. Without your guidance. Without your ownership or co-ownership of his issues. Alone.
Thank you for this. Ironinc enough, I have already received word that I am to blame for all of this. He apparently has started his treatment by putting me as the reason for this all. I have heard it all before and yes, I figured he would eventually play the " it's all my wifes fault " card- but so soon????!!!! WOW!!!