I am disappointed with my counselor though. I called her in tears today and she kept telling me that I need to convince my husband to go to couples counselling...I told her at least three times before that my husband refuses to go. I can't force him to go and she keeps telling me to ask him. I feel like I'm running around in circles with her. I would love to work on my confidence and self esteem, and she doesn't seem to understand that this is what I need. I'm frustrated. I'm thinking of seeing a different counselor but that would mean starting from scratch, telling my story all over again...I'm confused...