Originally Posted by
Hawkeye13 
Be sure to sit close to the court and take written "notes" during the matches.
That'll drive him nuts
don't let it get to you--you've come so far and he's still spinning
in his drunken dysfunctional mud trying to pass as normal
ain't happening
Bwaahhha!!! Well he'll be coaching the kids but I can still pretend I'm writing stuff about HIM, lol.
He's currently fighting me over getting our ds a car. He had told our son for 10 years that his car would be his (son's) at 17. Now he's telling me I'll have to pitch in cash for a vehicle for ds, which is fine, but I'd rather our son get this car since we both know what repairs went into it and how hard it's been driven, etc. I just feel better about it but....oh well. I would offer to buy it from him but XAH seems hellbent on keeping his car with 150K miles on it for himself for whatever reason.
My name is still on that car, I wonder if XAH remembers that part??? I signed it over to him in the divorce decree but my name is still on the title.
and, yes, he's still spinning. The last 2 emails he claims I've made him into a monster and that I've poisoned our son against him..... and he thanked me for doing such a good job at that and then accused my Al Anon friends of poisoning him too. Ummm, no, dude, YOU did that yourself when your kid found you naked in your office chair speaking in German one night, or when he couldn't sleep because you were playing the drums at 2 AM for hours straight, or when he couldn't wake you up when you were on the toilet at 9:30 AM and were supposed to take him to school, or when you neglected (4 times so far) to come pick him up to take him to school or to an appointment. At some point the kid is going to think for himself. It doesn't take an idiot to figure out that dad's a mess right now.
And, the whole 'monster' word? WTF is that about? I would never refer to someone that way and have never used that term in reference to him. He's having the biggest pity party in the world and it's a damn shame that he thinks I wanted to be invited to it! NOT.
Ugh....well, off to work to deal with my narcissist accountant boss who thinks the sky is falling because it's the end of the year and we have to be ready for the implementation of the new software system, which apparently isn't going to go well since our new software supplier/support staff only have us half online right now....arrgghh!