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Old 12-21-2015, 11:56 AM
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Originally Posted by biminiblue View Post
Am I the only one who is uncomfortable hearing the guy telling her how to act? I mean I am where I am. I don't want psychotherapy from a boyfriend and if I start to get it I get red flags all over the place..
I know, it made me a little uncomfortable, too. Especially since nobody else seemed especially distressed about it, especially Liz.

And the idea of someone "calling me out" when I behave a certain way is troubling, too.

Be careful, Liz, that you aren't concentrating on pleasing him by not pleasing others. I don't necessarily see him as a control freak just because he made an observation, but just remember it's OK to say, "Thanks for the input, but I'm fine with my behavior."
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