Learntofly, I wasn't a wine drinker so we don't have wine glasses so no help there. Haha. As far as why we can't drink normally & others can: we have an "allergy" (disease). Kinda like those poor kids in school that have to sit at a separate table than all the kids eating peanut butter for lunch. It sucks, but it could be so much worse! Think about all the diseases that people die from after months, even years of treatment and all we have to do to survive is not drink. :-) That's what I tell myself when I feel sorry for myself and I feel sorry for myself OFTEN! That's when I start listing things I'm grateful for. It could be worse...
You're doing great though! Your disease is in remission! :-)
Odelle, I'm so sorry to hear about your husband! Is he ok???