Well, I have moved on and feel more confident in a few ways. After my split, my daughter hit the bottle pretty hard and was very much out of control. It was past why I was not online, I spent the last year working hard with her and she went to rehab, she nearly lost her baby and she now lives with me and I have overseeing role with my grandbaby. She went 6 months sober after she was in rehab and met a nice bloke..and he took her out for a drink which immedietaly negated her bipolar meds and last week was a nightmare and I am now alert in case she begins again.. I tried to explain to him.... dont let her drink.. but its not my place surely..she needs to explain her mental and physical health and etc.. it is me trying to balance not being nosy but also ensuring my daughter does not drink again..
It takes a LOT out of you with all this.. am so very tired.