I loathe smoking ,
one aunt died from cancer 3 months ago because of it and mum has C.O.P.D. which will surely kill her.
My recovery , my not smoking and drinking is something i can do something about .
I cannot control others, what they do is theirs , they own it and my opinion is not solicited by them so i tend to keep it to myself.
Dealing with anger , resentment and frustration is whats left that i have to tackle , those are mine and i can do something about them . You can do something about yours too yes ? you have the tools ?
Bestwishes, m