Congrats on day (3) maximus. I know things seem monumental, but you're right on target that drinking will not fix things. In fact, as said, it will only set you back.
You have a clear head now, perhaps, you can pull the whole gang together and come up with a plan and work together. And I know it's tough, but I'm glad you are all there for each other. How's everyone in the house feeling? How's their demeanor? The important thing is to stay positive and I see you are doing that.......we're proud of you for that!