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Old 12-02-2015, 08:21 AM
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Keepnitreal
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Originally Posted by enfinthechange View Post
Oh poor you.. my husband is in that territory too.... don't know if we will be together now either after 20 years.... and half terrified... it makes me want to get smashed..... but I won't, I won't. .. I'm going to do **** for me and belive in myself. I am worth it... just because I screwed up doesn't mean I am evil... I have to try and belive it.

I hope you can believe in yourself and do whatever you need to do for you. Sending you best wishes...
If you both stay sober and your husbands see the change (not just hear about how you're going to do it) there may also be a change in their hearts over time. I'm seeing a change with my hubby. I just don't say anything (although after about3 weeks I did ask him if he still wants a divorce ....he said no) I'm letting my actions do the talking. I wish you both good luck.
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