Originally Posted by
SwimKim12 
Hi Pams, have you discussed the party with your husband yet? Perhaps he would be okay telling people you weren't feeling well and weren't really up to the party? (If you haven't already), can you let him know how important your sobriety is and how badly you want those 20 days?
No. I haven't discussed anything about the party with him yet. But I will.
I think the bottom line is that I am really terrified about the whole thing. Kind of like a fear of the unknown sort of thing.