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Old 11-27-2015, 08:36 AM
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fini
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Frankly, does it matter how we get to where we are? It only matters how we get better. No? Blame is a highly unproductive conversation. Blame is not a platform to stand on and cry to get help.

yes, i think it matters how i got to where i was and how i got to where i am now.
there's such a huge difference between blaming and understanding our history and how we got to where we are.
i agree blaming others/externals is not a productive way forward, but that in no way means it doesn't matter how we got here.
if we don't know/understand how we got here, how can we really change our way?
how can we prevent getting there again and again if we don't understand how we got in the mess in the first place?
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