Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
Are there any kid-friendly meetings in your area? I'm betting that's a great way to meet other moms in the same/similar situation. You might meet someone that you can swap babysitting favors so you can widen your circle of support.
I wondered this too -& also, is your son imitating your husband's behavior?
There is one that I've seen on the al-anon schedule but its a bit far.
And, yes I absolutely think he's imitating his behavior and I've expressed this to AH.