Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
Can you get some help with the kids for this weekend so you can really take some time for yourself while he's occupied? Making time for meetings & doing some reading is great... and when was the last time you just took a couple of hours OFF? For yourself? It's nearly impossible with small kids (DD was about 5 when AH & I split for about 2 yrs & I was essentially a single mom) but necessary.
I had a baby sitter but she moved, I'm looking for another but until then I only have my father and my aunt and they're willing to help but I don't like to take advantage because I already live with my dad and he helps so much with them already, he's in his mid 60's and his health isn't the greatest....he is a god sent though!!