I agree with everyone else, that you are perfectly "in the right" with what you did. Also, the even healthier "cherry on top" is that you didn't try to recruit people to "your side." I love it! I always say that in any situation, you can always get people to agree with you, and another large group to disagree with you (often for completely irrational reasons) over any situation. I think the challenge for us codependents, is to start feeling confident in our choices and equal to others.