Gleefan-I totally understand what you're saying! It was extremely uncomfortable to stand up for myself-extremely. Coming out of codependence means you must stand up for yourself and your values and you know, somewhat turn into a mature healthy adult with boundaries and such-and let others fight their own battles. However, it does not mean we are doormats and don't speak truth. You did the right thing-the other lady, eh? The toxic cycle will continue.
Peace to you
