Hi Belljar, we don't have children so I have no advice. But I think I can understand the tremendous stress and exhaustion you must experience dealing with this. And I can understand how it lead you to drinking. You sound like you are giving 110% to try and get the mess that has been created straightened out. At the same time, don't forget to take care of yourself. If you become unavailable because of a dependency to alcohol, it will hinder your ability to help these kids (I think). You have my unconditional support and I wish you the best.