Originally Posted by
wdpg 
To admit that i was drunk last night.
I don't know your situation, you do what you have to do... In my experience, it works well when actions come first. After many broken promises and attempts to quit, one day I just did it without telling anyone. Until later...
But I agree you have to be honest and accountable. It may help to tell her.
Take care of yourself, wdpg, do your very best for yourself and for your family!