Kboys-have so been there. It IS easy to forget when the drama has somewhat calmed down....but he will return, they usually always do. I've taken many measures to ensure I, and more importantly, my children are protected. Please consider arming yourself for protection (I would not recommend thus unless real danger was present-but the police advised me to arm myself). I truly hope it doesn't come to that But it's best to be prepared in situations like this. He will most likely try to pour on the niceness at some point-it is just an act to get something from you or to try and get you to not go forward with something-btdt too. Please keep us updated!!! Peace and hugs, friend.