@Ambuler I have the same setup in terms of towns. I am in a small agricultural town in the Midlands of South Africa. We have to drive 45 minutes to get to the city.
I do not have friends here so my life is work, kids and work again. We do have a lake we use to picnic at but with the drought there's hadly any water so I try and create my own activities. Playing tennis on the school grounds. I also play in the hockey league although I did not play this season due to prioritising alcohol.
Hope you find yourself sober and clear headed at all times no matter where you are. #hugs