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Old 10-27-2015, 09:09 AM
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She used to do a lot of weddings Phoebe. Designing earrings, necklaces, and bracelets. Now she's into cuff links. Got a nice Etsy website going.

It's a catch 22 breastfeeding. You want that bond, but there comes a time when you want them to sleep on their own in their room and crib. It goes completely against the whole concept. We've read a lot of books about it. It's a very natural animalistic thing for the baby to want to be close to momma. Especially at night when sleeping. Europeans have no problem sleeping with their babies for the first year, but us Americans gotta get them in that crib ASAP. God forbid you tell anyone the baby is sleeping with you! It just takes time. I remember my first son in that for the first year we constantly were up once or twice a night to comfort him if he woke. We've never believed in the cry out method. He's been sleeping like a champ for over two years now and it couldn't have worked out any better.
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