I like to think I am handeling all of this in a good manner. Thank you all for the support and replies. I will update when I can, I am expecting a phone call or letter any day now. I miss him so much and I really hope this stay at rehab/jail will really stick with him forever. Anyone have a loved one go through jail or rehab? How was the adjustment when they came home? Did it lead to recovery? Did they relapse? I need to know all I can.