I say perfect as in he has been the most respectful, loving boyfriends and even person I've met or been with. I've dated a lot of different types of guys and I would hate to let him go. I've been reading up on it ( the addiction) since I found out last year around this time and call me naive, but I don't like to assume the relationship is filled with lies etc. He's been very honest and it's only brought us closer. I guess I'll just have to wait for the actions to outweigh his words, hopefully in a positive way, Thank you all for responding, it does help, I guess I just really see the potential and focus on what could go right rather than what could go wrong.