Originally Posted by
patricia68 
I'm not responsible for my husband's bad mood right? It's not my fault that he complains nonstop, that he doesn't like my food or anybody's food, he doesn't even like his own food! I just can't take his negativity anymore. I just can't try to please him anymore because nothing ever makes him happy!
Ugh...sorry! Now I'm bringing all this negativity here. I want to cry so bad, I want to drink too but I won't. I need to be strong.
Patricia, its not your fault, my husband is the same. Tender hearted and lovely with animals, but total negative curmudgeon with people. I never cooked till I signed up for that food thing, he complained about every meal, and they were delicious.
I just do my own thing now, reconnecting with friends and interests I had before my drinking got so bad. We cant change anyone else, just ourselves, and we arent responsible for someone else's outlook on life!