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Old 10-15-2015, 02:37 PM
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amy55
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Originally Posted by Forourgirls View Post
It's so hard to open your eyes to reality-and much easier to stay in denial and continue to rationalize, believe their words, etc.
anyway, just wanted you to know again that you are not alone-not by a long shot-and that you will 100% be okay. Let him go.
Forourgirls,

You said it so well. It is so much easier to stay in denial. It really is hard when you need to come out of there and realize that all the things they did say, and all the actions they didn't take begins to destroy our fantasy.

Not really saying fantasy in a bad way, I think it's just the way that we want to look at things. We want to see the good and minimize the bad. I think when our eyes are finally opened that we really want to swim in the river of de nile again, but we can't anymore, because we were just drowning. It's really hard when you know that you, and you alone are the only one that can get you out of there.

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