Originally Posted by
wehav2day 
Yep, if you want help, call today. Putting it off until you "have some time" is really just a way to leave the door open to drink. If you want to drink, drink. But if you want to stop, call the guy.
You are exactly right. My mind tells me I would be insulting him if I call him on day 2 and that is exactly when I should call him and he will be glad to hear from me. The phone number I have in my iPhone contacts is no longer him. But I have emails and a home phone number somewhere at the house. This was from 2009/2010. If nothing else, I know where he lived at the time. He was an older / stable guy who very likely still lives there and has same home phone. I'll track him down one way or another.