Ooo that came out so wrong!
What I mean is that I think it's perfectly natural to feel I know what would help her and sometimes maybe I do, but I need to try hard not to act this way as apart from taking the focus off my recovery it just belittles her among other things.
For me personally, I got really annoyed often with people thinking they knew everything and I thought "May I never end up that ignorant" and I drank more thinking I had all the answers, ironically. So anyway, trying not to act this way means trying not to think this way. Now I find I kinda like her when I leave all the alcohol factor out of it. Which is still hard at times.
Ok, I feel better now
