Oh yeah I do know. I sometimes get the 'martyr' ego really bad, I don't know about you. It's so subtle that I find myself thinking it's ok to know what's best for her and before I know it I feel all holier than thou...I am not sure how exactly I come across in those moments. I can say now that I keep it to myself, but like I said she's perceptive. Obviously, it doesn't help my recovery either.
I haven't seen that Seinfeld episode although I still got the giggle. It reminded me of the "Serenity now" episode where George's dad and especially Kramer go crazy from demanding serenity every time they get wound up lol I have done this many times.
Thanks for making me feel welcome
