Seems to me, the person sitting in the comfy chair was in a place called recovery and forgot that that same scenario a few yrs. ago served as the battle ground Dino needed it to be. Now he can't get a bite....and you've been getting better and better so much so that you didn't even know he was trying to get your goat. You were busy thinking about your own interests. Oh boy, I can't wait to get there. Do you realize you have graduated from jujubees......you don't need em....you are naturally living in a mode of recovery from codependency. Unbelievable......that is very inspireing. I am so aware that I'm biting my tongue when my husband starts with me, that it kills me. I can't wait for the day that I look at him and say, "where is this coming from?....maybe you're just having a bad day....go lay down and I'll take care of the kids tonight" OOh boy, I'm getting chills.
I wonder what happens when we stop participating??
