Yikes! That sounds crazy, in control!
I think I mentioned that I get wasps in my office (or bees) every year--that a colleague even had the wall of her office opened and there was a huge nest in there, including honey. At any rate, I get bees and wasps in my office all the time. One year i had a buddist nun as a student. She believed strongly that nothing should be killed and always volunteered to capture and release the guys that got into my office. I'm not sure how she did it--she never got stung, and they never got injured. Clearly, she had the right spirit--or just incredible patience