Originally Posted by
matilda123 
Juno, this is so smart--and hard to do too. Proud of you!! Brava! To be honest, I've been thinking about this too. I have had a weekend trip on the books with a friend, which is scheduled in a couple of weeks. Usually when we get together (especially without our partners) we have a booze time of it. Starting to wonder if I should cancel.
Matilda - I understand the dilemma. I have a hard time canceling plans I have made because I'm usually one to feel obligated to do what I said I was going to do. I'm feeling a twinge of guilt for canceling tonight, when I really shouldn't - I should be applauding my decision to keep me out of temptation's way. It is hard to cancel, but liberating as well. I'm using this time to steer clear of social events and concentrate on nurturing me when I can! Please keep us posted on your plans and decisions with regard to your friend!