It's in all of us , the 'stuff' to make a BP , we just need to believe it and tap into it. Finding support to help bolster the resolve and never change our minds can certainly be helpful and comforting, just remember that anything that tries to bring doubt to the idea that you can maintain a BP is by definition the AV , our own and or anyone elses' and needs to be discarded, take what you need and leave the rest comes to mind
