Originally Posted by hopepraylove

I have a question for those of us who are the partners/spouses of loved ones in recovery.

If you made the decision to stay after a relapse/slip, did you go to couples counseling with your spouse to address whatever happened during the relapse, or what lead up to the relapse? Or did you just leave the relapse in the past and move forward, focusing on the recovery?

Thank you for sharing your stories. I'm so grateful for this community.

Originally Posted by Falseclaimsact

Individual counseling has been vitally important to me, same with nar anon. My recovery is up to me, I don't count on him to be a participant